There are many things in life that you can figure out for yourself, meanwhile there are many others that it would be in your best interest to seek professional experience. The key to this whole process is to find people that know what they are doing and have many years of experience not just a certificate to teach.
A perfect example is golf. One of the hardest games in the world to master and play consistently is a game of hitting a small white ball with a stick into a hole 4 inches wide and 500 yards away. I know individuals that get paid $50/hour to teach beginers how to swing a club properly and make them a better golfer. The problem is that this person has been golfing for 5 years, is an average golfer, and is only teaching because he paid $1200 for a one month half classroom, half in the field course.
When you start in something, you’d like to learn anything you can and thus if someone is simply better than you at something they automatically are qualified to give you pointers. In a sport like golf though, it is very easy to pick up a bad habit which then turns into a lifetime slice or hook on the golf course.
Yesterday I got a lesson from a 65 year old man that is also a scratch golfer. He has been playing for over 35 years and basically told me to throw away everything that I have ever learned about golf. He told me that everything that I have learned is wrong and that the people that taught me are idiots. At first I looked at him like if he was a lunatic, but then hit a 310 yard drive straight down the first hole with 2 simple tips thats were the exact opposite of what was drilled into my brain as a young golfer.
Think about how much a teacher in a school can influence his or her students to beleive a certain thing because of a hatred for that issue, product, culture or individual. Think about a history teacher that teaches his class, but is 30 years old and go all his information about WW2 from his 4 years at SFU. His word is only as good as his opinion isn’t it? How about the 80 year old teacher that fought in WW2 who hates Russians, Germans, and any other country that was involved torturing “his” people.
Finally consider your childhood. If your parents are racist, there is a pretty good chance you will get sucked into it. If your parents grew up in a time where a certain lifestyle was popular, how will they teach you to live? When you are young, you are gulable and trusting of everything. But it’s amazing how this world tries to dumb us as a society down. I think its starts with extremely under qualified individuals who teach their objective one-sided bullshit.
Think about it.


